Marmie is a mysterious personage.
Take a lifetime of art and creativity,
throw in a few largish handsfull of theater production, memories of travel to most contintents,
thoughtful appreciation of cooking, literature, gardening, drawing and painting (3margarets),
stir well amongst an ever-increasing group of
family & friends
interested in and dependent upon her creative input
...and you get marmie.
Is to put God first, and she's thoroughly convinced that He's interested in her being a blessing
So that works out exceptionally well for you.